Cross-Dressing and Humor

I started to say this in a comment on the Some Like It Hot discussion, but decided to make it a separate post so I could find it later, if the subject ever came up again.

I can't explain why so many people find men dressed as women to be so very funny. But I have figured out why I don't. It can lead to some situations that are amusing to me, like the scene in Some Like It Hot where Jack Lemmon as "Daphne" has to share a cozy late-night drink and chat with Marilyn Monroe and the girls in the upper berth of a railroad car while pretending he isn't half-crazed by Marilyn's proximity.

But the thing in itself: not very funny. The reason is that the clothes, makeup, hair, and general vibe of women are meant to be sexually attractive–not necessarily in a crude way, but at least in a general way. They are meant to enclose and heighten the appeal of the female body. And this is a very pleasant and powerful thing.

But the male body is not a sexual thing to me; just the opposite, in fact.  So a male body with the accoutrements that signal "female" is jarring and unpleasant. It's like finding something like grass or twigs in your ice cream; somewhat more off-putting, really, because of the repelling effect of the like poles of two magnets. 

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6 responses to “Cross-Dressing and Humor”

  1. Grumpy back home in the USA

    Cross dressing wouldn’t be funny if it were not incongrous. That is why Tootsie is much less funny than SLIH – the conventions separating male and female apparel were by then no longer extreme enough to make it hilarious for a one to appear as the other

  2. Interesting. I never saw all of Tootsie, but I have seen pieces of it here and there, and it didn’t strike me as at all funny. I seem to remember Tootsie looking rather bizarre compared to actual women in the movie, and now that you say that I wonder if it’s because they were trying to make “her” more incongruous.

  3. Seeing that still, it strikes me that I know a woman who looks just like Jack Lemmon in drag.

  4. Poor woman. Though probably better Jack than Tony.

  5. The only men in drag that I ever really found funny were those on the Monty Python shows. But I think that was because A) the Pythons did that so well, and B) what they actually did — the sketches and dialogue — was generally pretty funny itself.
    I found both ‘Tootsie’ and ‘Mrs. Doubtfire’ quite unfunny.

  6. You know, I think I’m confusing those last two movies. I’m not sure now whether I’ve seen bits of both or only one. Well, whatever, I was not amused.
    The Pythons are a bit like the Marx Bros., funny even when what they’re doing or saying isn’t that funny.

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