What Is Actually Happening, April 23, 2016

Jim Geraghty of National Review observed yesterday in his "Morning Jolt" newsletter that "More and more of our public debates feel like weโ€™re trying to reason with people who are simply insane." He was referring to a dispute between the city of Chicago and the teacher's union, in which the head of the latter referred to the governor of Illinois as "the new ISIS recruit." But that strikes me as only a step or two beyond what has become normal for political rhetoric. What really makes me feel like I'm dealing with simply insane people is the sudden demand that women's restrooms, locker rooms, etc., be open to men. That is what, in the end, the controversy over "transgender" access to these facilities amounts to.

Suddenly a notion that would just recently have struck almost everyone as at best questionable and at worst crazy and dangerous is being treated as the moral and political equivalent of the struggle against racial segregation. Suddenly Bruce Springsteen, that champion of working-class values, believes that as a matter of principle he cannot play a concert in North Carolina because North Carolinians are resisting the demand. Suddenly Curt Schilling, a former major-league baseball star working for ESPN, is not fit to be employed by them because he thinks the demand is crazy. The president himself condemns efforts at the state level to pass laws resisting it. Even the concern for the safety of children, and the worry expressed by women who have been victims of sexual abuse of various kinds, which would normally trump most other considerations, is suddenly treated as a form of bigotry.

You simply can't argue against this. It's not just that your argument will not be considered, but that the fact that you are making it marks you as bigot who shouldn't be talking in the first place. Even to point that out makes you pretty suspect; it's one of the things Curt Schilling is being criticized for. As with same-sex marriage, you may have a legal right to argue against this practice, but you have no moral right; you will be shunned and deservedly punished in whatever extra-legal ways are available. 

It really seems as if some sort of mania has seized most of the country's progressives. Although I never like bringing the demonic into a discussion of human folly or wickedness, because human nature itself generally seems a more than adequate explanation,  I can't help thinking about the Gadarene swine. Or maybe just lemmings. I also can't help thinking about the Objective Room described in C.S. Lewis's That Hideous Strength: a place specifically designed to break down any sense of right order. 

Part of the psychology behind the mania is no doubt what someone cleverly called Selma Envy: a desire–no, a deep need–to appropriate to oneself the imagined pure righteousness of the struggle against racial segregation. It may be irrational to say that a man who wants you to say that he is a woman is in the same moral position as a man who wants you to treat him like a man. But if you can get people to accept that equivalence you have an invincible weapon. All you have to say to your opponent is "You're just like the segregationists," and the most prestigious and powerful elements of our society will join you in denouncing him and possibly attempting to marshal the legal system against him.

But I don't think even Selma Envy entirely explains the phenomenon. There is some sort of sexual mania at work in our culture, and its origins are mysterious. Where is it leading? Will this particular controversy about restrooms burn out and subside, or will it become established, like so many other elements of the culture wars, as a permanent source of rancor? At the moment the latter seems likely. It certainly is bringing out, again, the growing authoritarianism of the left. For someone who was a leftist during the late '60s there's a great deal of irony, amusing only at first glance, in the fact it's now the left demanding Law and order! I had a conversation recently with a liberal who was passionately against the idea that the law could or should provide any sort of conscientious objection for bakeries, florists, and the like who do not want to provide their services for same-sex weddings. As with same-sex marriage, so with male access to places heretofore considered private to women: it's not enough that the new practice should be established in New York and San Francisco and anywhere else where most people favor it, while other parts of the country may do as they like. Only total uniformity will suffice.

46 responses to “What Is Actually Happening, April 23, 2016”

  1. It’s amazing to me that people who support this do not seem to care that they are putting their own daughters in dangerous situations. I’d love to see what Walker Percy would make of all this.
    Really, you should watch that Hitler movie.
    AMDG

  2. I know. It truly, literally, seems like a madness of some kind.
    Maybe I will.

  3. That movie sounds fascinating, Janet.
    Maclin, I reckon I say (or think) “raving lunatics” every day now – at least when I read about the news.
    I have been expecting things to get simply more crazy, but still, it really concerns me.
    I don’t wish to overstate anything, but I definitely see this as having a demonic element. And it’s all very “Objective Room”-ish.

  4. I keep being surprised at how fast it’s all moved. Like men having husbands and women having wives–from crazy to unquestionable dogma in the blink of an eye. “Yeah, the segregationists said the same thing.”
    I left out of this post something I’d intended to mention: some arm of the British government has warned gay people about traveling to North Carolina and Mississippi. Yesterday it was ok. Today it’s scary.

  5. Marianne

    Also contributing to this is the influence of money and celebrity. Trump’s all for letting transgendered people use whatever bathroom they like because otherwise businesses can have problems. He’s also for it because he likes Caitlin (formerly Bruce) Jenner, and Caitlin is well on her way to becoming a beloved celebrity in our celebrity-obsessed culture.
    That and more all adds up to lots of confusion, the ideal climate for craziness to take hold.

  6. I would say that integration has yet to be as successful as the current agenda, even after all these years.
    AMDG

  7. This is a pretty accurate paraphrase of a conversation I just saw:
    Man: “It would be realy helpful if women dressed modestly”
    Woman: “You’re blaming women for RAPE CULTURE!!!”

  8. Yeah, I’ve been hearing variations on that since the 1970s. Some guy–maybe a college president?–in some position of authority just got into big trouble in talking to college students and telling the girls that it would be a good idea for them to avoid parties where there’s lots of alcohol. I think he may even have lost his job.

  9. “…integration has yet to be as successful as the current agenda,”
    Yes and no. If by “successful” you mean “successful”, no. ๐Ÿ™‚ Not in the sense of producing racial harmony, or even full integration, since there is still so much de facto segregation, even self-segregation. But if by “successful” you mean establishing a permanent legal and cultural apparatus to serve as a sort of inquisition for racism, it’s been very successful in exactly the way the gay etc. rights movement wants to be.

  10. “..the ideal climate for craziness to take hold.” Yes, and speaking of that, and Trump, I’m still astonished at the way the craziness took hold of some evangelical leaders and led them to support Trump.
    So much of this stuff, and the Bruce Jenner deal especially, is just way beyond the reach of satire. Apparently referring to Bruce Jenner as “he” can get you in big trouble in some circles.

  11. My mother is handicapped in a wheel-chair and my stepfather is her caregiver. When in public places and she needs to use a restroom they obviously look for one designed for them; they may refer to them as “family” designated, where you go in and lock the door? Of course these are few and far between so years ago he just gave up and wheels her into the women’s room since it would be more embarrassing for her to go to the men’s room. He used to have qualms about this, but has gotten over them. He says he occasionally gets some funny looks, but no one has ever questioned his presence there. He is in his late 70s and she is in her mid 70s.
    So how can my parents continue to have access to public restrooms without putting the women-folk at risk of whatever it is you all are suggesting in the posts above (devils, demons, immodesty)? This has nothing to do with the transgender question, but it sort of ends up in the same category, weirdly.
    My parents are middle-America Midwesterners who vote Republican and are most likely appalled by Bruce Jenner if they are even aware of him and the Kardashians ongoing antics.

  12. and…I was just thinking, we are travelling to North Carolina in August for a family member’s wedding. Do I need to worry that my stepfather will be arrested there? ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

  13. That us just a straw man, Stu. Of course no one would object to your parents.
    We are not talking about hobgoblins here. We are talking about men who are not transgender taking advantage of the situation to get into a formerly inaccessible place to harm young girls or even older ones. If you don’t think this is likely, you are living in a dream world.
    AMDG

  14. I think anything is likely, Janet! As unfortunate as that is. ๐Ÿ˜ฆ However, just like the cake baking nonsense I think this is a ridiculous situation which should be ignored if at all possible. Do they now have law enforcement posted outside restrooms in NC? Will those officers be checking questionable looking “women” who try to enter?
    As far as the bakers go, I think they must be enjoying this surge in popularity of their profession. I don’t think it is hyperbole to suggest that never in the history of the world has cake baking been discussed as much as in the United States in the past few years!

  15. Well, up until all this started if a man came in the woman’s room, you would go get the manager and they would be likely to call the police.
    And it is a question of modesty, too.
    AMDG

  16. “Yeah, I’ve been hearing variations on that since the 1970s. Some guy–maybe a college president?–in some position of authority just got into big trouble in talking to college students and telling the girls that it would be a good idea for them to avoid parties where there’s lots of alcohol. I think he may even have lost his job.”
    Not surprising. The thing is, in the example I gave, the context had nothing to do with men committing crimes or even potentially committing crimes. The context was simply that men are more visual, so why do women dress provocatively? Why would they want to be an occasion of making a man feel sexual desire for them? There was no mention of rape, or sex attacks or anything which could reasonably lead women to believe he was blaming victim of sex crimes.

  17. Stu, nobondy in their right mind would question a man taking his disabled wife to the women’s rest room. If that happens from now on then unfortunately, the liberals are to blame for it by making toilets their next big cause. It’s simply insane.

  18. The reason why I call this series of posts “What Is Actually Happening?” is that I think the real significance of these trends is not only or necessarily in the specific immediate demand. And Stu, I don’t think you’re seeing it.
    The number of truly transgender people has to be very very very small. Surely, where there is a real problem, reasonable accommodations and compromises can be found. Why is it suddenly necessary to turn things upside down for them RIGHT NOW? Why is anyone who questions the demand vilified as a bigot? Why do pop stars and the government of the UK feel compelled to get involved?
    Granted, there is hysteria on the other side, too–hysteria generates hysteria. But they’re only reacting. And of course none of this has anything to do with situations like your parents’. They in fact would be in a much more persuasive position if they joined with others in similar circumstances to advocate for more “family”-style restrooms. Notice that isn’t what the gender politics crowd is doing.
    I had a long discussion about the bakery and related causes on Fb with someone not long ago. I said I though that with common sense and good will compromises could be worked out. He really wasn’t interested in that at all.
    The last I heard, by the way, the bakery in Oregon had been driven out of business and hit with a confiscatory fine, to say nothing of nationwide vilification and threats. I don’t know if that’s changed or not, but I’m pretty sure they don’t think they gained much from the publicity.

  19. Believe it or not I am more in agreement with you than against you, Mac. I remember the Facebook argument you mention and you were certainly the voice of reason, while he was ranting.
    I react more in tiredness to what I see as very silly things, and the word silly is not pointed towards you and your reasoned concerns. I just have triggers that go off when I read these things, and one of them is my parents.
    Whenever I hear about the bakers I think of an erotic bakery I used to walk by when I lived in Seattle and it makes me chuckle.
    I do agree that everything is a crazy overreaction on each side, but I also feel like each side has a somewhat valid point they are trying to make and the other side won’t hear it.

  20. In the abstract, as part of a rational discussion, the view that each side has a valid point is reasonable. But it’s not a rational discussion. It’s more like a mob action. Or like those statements of “non-negotiable demands” that activists like to make.
    I’m glad you saw me as the reasonable one in that discussion. I do try hard not to rant. I even tried in this post. ๐Ÿ™‚

  21. Replying to Louise: “The thing is, in the example I gave, the context had nothing to do with men committing crimes or even potentially committing crimes.”
    Ah, but if you accept that women can be responsible for the effect of their dress or lack thereof on men, it’s but a short step to blaming them for inciting rape. ๐Ÿ™‚ Unfortunately that is pretty much the reasoning.
    What annoys men about this is that some feminists seem to think men can and should adjust their reactions in the way feminism prescribes, and this varies from one woman to another from one situation to another. Quite obviously a lot of women dress provocatively quite obviously for the purpose of getting male attention. But they want some kind of veto power over which males and what kind of attention. It doesn’t work that way. Obviously men have to control their behavior, but you can’t demand that they always receive exactly and only the message you intend to send.

  22. Here’s an example of what’s happening with the bathroom controversy. Notice that both the poor sad girl and the courts are insistent that a unisex bathroom is not acceptable–she has to be able to use the boys’ bathroom.
    A few months ago there was a story about a woman who was upset when a man came into the women’s locker room at the gym she belonged to. She went to the manager and he kicked her out of the gym. This was applauded.

  23. It’s a mixed-up, muddled-up, shook-up world…

  24. Especially for Lola.

  25. ‘…as part of a rational discussion, the view that each side has a valid point is reasonable.’
    Indeed, in that spirit I suggest that you read lefties that are as smart as you criticizing the Christian Right. Without reacting, but by trying to see what they see. As the ongoing GOP disaster shows there is no shortage of Ugly on the right.
    I know that before everything got shook up I once put ideas and dogmas before humans. Yes, I am a recovering pharisee. It is not far from idealism – envisioning the perfect- to ideology, the idolatry of ideas. It is important in this discussion to remember that we are talking about human beings, our brothers and sisters, and that all of us are born into turmoil and trauma and no one WANTS to be confused or feel rejected or not at home in their body. Look into their eyes, not at their eyes, when you talk to them. Maybe we just need three or four bathrooms instead of two in public places?

  26. I don’t think that any of us here are unsympathetic to the transgender people’s plight, and I don’t understand why you assume that we are. It’s the politics surrounding the issue that are the problem. It seems to me that often these people are being used in the same way that Norma McCorvey was used. Also, as Maclin points out, apparently no one else is allowed to have feelings or to be heard.
    AMDG

  27. And three or four bathrooms of what kind? I would be happy with any reasonable solution that satisfied all parties, but I don’t see us getting there any time soon.
    AMDG

  28. Yes to what Janet said. I have all sorts of sympathy for people with serious problems, like the one I referred to above as a “poor sad girl” (which of course would be considered an insult by the gender activists). I don’t think affirming people in their attempts to avoid or reshape reality is an expression of true sympathy.
    I encounter left-wing opinion all the time. One of the reasons I write posts like this is that they’re an attempt to stay oriented in the Objective Room.
    I’m all for reasonable accomodation, as I think I said earlier. As I think I also said or at least suggested (don’t want to re-read it all right now), it seems that more “family” or unisex bathrooms would be a reasonable accomodation. But as the Washington Post story linked to above shows, that’s not acceptable to the activists. I’ve seen a quote said to be from some unnamed ’60s radical: “The issue is never the issue. The issue is the revolution.” Applicable in this case.

  29. I wish I could completely stop using public restrooms. Behind a tree would be preferable to most that I walk into. ๐Ÿ˜› I am often thinking to myself, “how much time before I am home” while considering whether or not to enter a suspect restroom.

  30. Yeah, it gets to be a real gamble when you’re traveling in sparsely populated areas. Of course men’s rooms are generally worse, too.

  31. I might add, on the original subject, that I really don’t like writing posts like this.
    “I don’t think affirming people in their attempts to avoid or reshape reality is an expression of true sympathy.” The girl in the Post story is a good instance. That picture of her is kind of heartbreaking. She’s been dealt a really bad hand. She’s never going to be a pretty girl, or probably even an ordinary girl, and probably not going to have the kinds of experiences, joyful and not so, that most girls do involving dating, romance, etc. You can see why declaring herself to be male would seem like a way out. But it isn’t really going to be. Insisting on using the male bathroom & locker room, for instance. That’s downright risky. There’s a really good chance that she’s going to be insulted and mocked, if not worse. It’s likely to increase her isolation. A really sad situation no matter how you look at it.

  32. Of course men’s rooms are generally worse, too.
    Yes, that is another thing that concerns me with these unisex bathrooms. I have to admit that some women’s restrooms are far worse than they used to be but you seldom have a puddle of urine in front of the toilet, which, if you have to pull down your long pants, is a real problem. I have always been hesitant to discuss this online. You don’t want to get me started on this subject.
    Stu, if I were a man, I would be a tree man.
    AMDG

  33. ๐Ÿ™‚
    “When you’re a man, the world is your urinal.”
    –remark from a woman I read somewhere or other

  34. Including the floor in front of the toilet. You would think that if he didn’t want to use the toilet, he could go find a tree.

  35. “I don’t think affirming people in their attempts to avoid or reshape reality is an expression of true sympathy.”
    I agree.

  36. “…he could go find a tree.”
    I always figure it’s just as well not to imagine how those pools happen.

  37. It’s terrible when you know for a fact who the culprit was–especially on a .2 sq. mi. island.
    AMDG

  38. Yeah, and especially if he’s over 5.

  39. Not sure if this is the most relevant post to add this comment to (I have a feeling there was a more relevant one, but can’t seem to find it). But Camille Paglia seems in many respects to agree: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HxoN4wTrnvs

  40. Ol’ Camille–she’s always so right about some things, pretty wrong about others. I think she’s right on this matter.
    I’ve read interviews with her over the years but never actually heard her speak. She’s exactly as I would have expected.As it happens, I read a somewhat lengthy one just a few days ago.

  41. That was a pretty fun interview, Paul. I think I agreed with everything she said too, though I might be fuzzy on the finer points of feminism. ๐Ÿ™‚ I especially liked her talking about the college girls agreeing to go up to the fraternity guy’s bedroom. But the trans- bathroom part was spot on too. She could possibly be the easiest interview ever – just come with a list of two or three questions and she’ll do the rest!

  42. Apparently “Caitlyn” Jenner will be posing nude for Sports Illustrated. What a shocking and appalling image to consider, so I would recommend that you do not. I remember several months ago when s/he was big news I made the remark to a friend of mine who does not follow celebrity nonsense but is a big sports fan, “What do you think of Bruce Jenner transitioning to a woman?” To which he replied, “Hasn’t he been doing that for 30 years?” I found that droll reply quite amusing.

  43. Does that mean Bruce Jenner’s been notably effeminate or something? I barely recognized his name before this crazy stuff started–vague association with Olympics was about it–so I wasn’t either surprised or not-surprised.
    Yes, that is a shocking and appalling image.
    And what is up with these sports journalists (e.g. ESPN) being so frenziedly PC? Is it some kind of “we have to prove we’re not just dumb sports fans” thing?
    About Camille and the girls-to-guys-rooms thing: I remember her saying years ago, maybe as many as 20, that some feminists were essentially trying to reinstate the old pre-sexual-revolution rules for the protection of women by other means, and in the name of feminism rather than sexual morality.

  44. If nothing else Bruce Jenner was always a man that seemed overly concerned with his hair.
    He won the gold medal in the decathlon, 1976 summer Olympics in Montreal.

  45. The Olympics would have been way way down on the list of Stuff I’m Interested In in 1976, but I guess his name was in the air enough that I was vaguely aware of him.

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